Monday, March 10, 2014

Living as the Savior Lived

One of my favorite church leaders is President Uchtdorf. I love his teachings on perspective and attitude. In a recent General Conference, he pointed out:
"I think of our Lord and Exemplar, Jesus Christ, and His short life among the people of Galilee and Jerusalem. I have tried to imagine Him bustling between meetings or multitasking to get a list of urgent things accomplished. 
I can’t see it.

Instead I see the compassionate and caring Son of God purposefully living each day. When He interacted with those around Him, they felt important and loved. He knew the infinite value of the people He met. He blessed them, ministered to them. He lifted them up, healed them. He gave them the precious gift of His time."
I have a testimony that those who live their lives as President Uchtdorf narrates the Savior living His--lives full of sincere love, concern, awareness for, and time for others--will be happy. I know from personal experience that I am the happiest when I am more concerned for the welfare of my neighbor's soul than for my own. Happiness is something you can create for yourself only when you give yourself away in the service of those around you. It's one of the greatest ironies I know of.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Letters

Dear Scripture Study, Best. Thing. Ever. I'm definitely going to keep keepin' you awesome because you just make everything else awesome.

Dear Roomies, I love doing waffle Sundays with you. I also love and super appreciate the happy spirit that you each bring into our apartment. I feel grateful to live with amazing women who bring an amazing spirit into my life.

Dear Betsy, YOU SURVIVED BRAIN SURGERY!!!! Congratulations. We're happy to have you back home. :)

Dear Quincy, Thank you for your lesson today in Relief Society. It helped remind me of the importance of my family and of how much I love them. You are such a talented teacher. Thank you for the love you bring into the classroom.

Dear Kate and Abby, Thank you so much for talking with me today on the phone. I love hearing about your life and am grateful that technology makes it so easy to keep in touch. And by the way, you two are two of my four favorite sisters in the whole world!

Dear Ethan, Rachel, and Lauren, Dinner with you three was wonderful. I love that we can still be such good friends even though we've gone different ways. It's good to know that I have people like you guys in my life to fall back on when things get rough.

Dear Jamie and Garrick, Thanks for letting us invade your snazzy little abode tonight to make cookie bars (which turned out super good!) and to play Settlers. You guys are great. And I love the pillows on your couch.

Dear Chris, You company was much appreciated tonight as we braved the Gaffneys'. You were willing to make some needed trades with me while we played Settlers and you even know where both Jerome and Vancouver are, so you must not be that bad of a guy. I just hope that next time we can beat Jamie.

Dear Heavenly Father, I believe.

Saturday, February 15, 2014

The Three P's

This semester has brought lots of wonderful experiences into my life. I have had so many opportunities to stretch myself, learn, and grow closer to my Savior and Father in Heaven. Through it all, I have continually reminded myself of three things that the gospel provides that are key to helping me make it through with the surety that everything is going to turn out okay in the end. They are the 3 P's: power, perspective, and peace.

Power
Elder Bednar, a leader in the Mormon church, says this: "It is one thing to know that Jesus Christ came to earth to die for us. That is fundamental and foundational to the doctrine of Christ. But we also need to appreciate that the Lord desires, through His Atonement and by the power of the Holy Ghost, to live in us—not only to direct us but also to empower us." In other words, Christ's Atonement not only gave Him the power to redeem us from our sins, it gave Him the power to help us in the here and now--in our daily lives. This semester I have called upon Heavenly Father in prayer, seeking this power in my life. I know that He has answered my prayers by giving me strength and desires beyond what I was capable of at the moment. The enabling power of the Atonement can help us make it through difficult times by empowering us to choose the right in difficult circumstances and by helping us repent and forgive when the desire to do so dwindles.

Perspective
The perspective that the gospel gives me is priceless. When I'm having a hard time I just step back, remember the bigger picture, and then I'm able to move on. The gospel perspective assures me that as long as I keep the commandments and follow the Lord that He will take care of me. The gospel perspective assures me that better things always lie ahead of me. The gospel perspective reminds me that people are more important than to-do lists and that serving others will make me happier than focusing on fixing my problems. Elder Jay E. Jensen in the First Quorum of the Seventy says: "When we understand the great plan of happiness, we are gaining an eternal perspective, and the commandments, ordinances, covenants, and the experiences, trials, and tribulations can be seen in their true and eternal light." An eternal perspective puts everything in it's place and reminds us of the things that really matter: God, family, the people around us, and the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Peace
Above all else, I'm grateful for the peace which the gospel of Jesus Christ gives me. I know no one who penned it better than Emma Lou Thayne in her song "Where Can I Turn For Peace?":

Where Can I turn for peace?
Where is my solace
When other sources cease to make me whole?
When with a wounded heart, anger, or malice,
I draw myself apart,
Searching my soul?

Where, when my aching grows,
Where when I languish,
Where, in my need to know, where can I run?
Where is the quiet hand to calm my anguish?
Who, who can understand?
He, only One.

He answers privately,
Reaches my reaching
In my Gethsemane, Savior and Friend.
Gentle the peace he finds for my beseeching.
Constant he is and kind,

Love without end.


In hard times I can have peace because I know that Christ is there and that He understands perfectly. I can have peace because I know that He loves me and will not give up on me. I can have peace because I know that God loves me and that with His help, everything will always be okay in the end.

I'm so grateful for power, perspective, and peace granted to me through the gospel. I can testify from my experience these past several weeks that if you pray for these things and then actively seek them, they will come into your life. Beyond knowing the reality of Christ and our Father in Heaven, I hope that we can each make Them a reality in our everyday lives. Accessing Their power, perspective, and peace is a way to do just that and will make everything we go through in this mortal experience worth it.

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Christmas Through Heaven's Eyes

My heart has been touched recently with love from God and with loving admiration for those around me. I have been blessed to feel a greater measure of the Spirit in my days. I have been blessed to see those around me through His eyes. I have been blessed to taste the love God has for my fellowmen, which has increased the love I have for them myself. In this season of Christmas, amid the business of finals and shopping and decorating and travel, I pray that I may be able to keep this love within my heart and to use it to guide my perspective and my everyday dealings with the loved ones that surround me. I do not want to sell that which is most important to me for a bowl of porridge; I do not want to overlook caring for and loving those around me for far lesser aspirations, such as doing good in school. People--not grades or goals or things--create the substance of life.

This Christmas season, I want to start looking at things a little more through Heaven's eyes.