Come Unto Me

"Go thy way unto thy brother, and first be reconciled to they brother, and then come unto me with full purpose of heart, and I will receive you." -3 Nephi 12:24

“Just because God is God, just because Christ is Christ, they cannot do other than care for us and bless us and help us if we will but come unto them, approaching their throne of grace in meekness and lowliness of heart. They can’t help but bless us. They have to. It is their nature. That is why Joseph Smith gave those lectures on faith, so we would understand the nature of godliness and in the process have enough confidence to come unto Christ and find peace to our souls. There is not a single loophole or curveball or open trench to fall into for the man or woman who walks the path that Christ walks. When he says, “Come, follow me” (Luke 18:22), he means that he knows where the quicksand is and where the thorns are and the best way to handle the slippery slope near the summit of our personal mountains. He knows it all, and he knows the way. He is the way.” -Jeffrey R. Holland, April 1998 Ensign

My favorite part of this scripture is that is says to come unto Christ with full purpose of heart. Coming unto Christ should not be a passive thing. It should not be something we think on and do if we have time once our homework is done, the house is clean, and we’re done working for the day. It needs to be the drive behind everything we do. When we do come unto Him—as Elder Holland says—everything becomes easier. Those things which we sometimes mistakenly put before coming unto Him suddenly become easier and more doable; not because Christ has changed the situation, but because he has changed us. Coming unto Christ changes us and give us the capacity to work more cheerfully, serve more abundantly, love more perfectly, and live more fully. It should be the full purpose of our hearts because it is truly the thing which makes our hearts full.

Doubt

So. One of my New Year goals is to blog every Sunday about a scripture I've read that week. Let's see how long I can keep it up! Here's post number one...

"And there began to be great doubtings and disputations among the people, notwithstanding so many signs had been given." -3 Nephi 8:4

"As Latter-day Saints, ours in not the options of doubting and fearing. Ours is the opportunity of believing and acting." -Gordon B. Hinckley, January 2000 New Era

In this scripture the people begin doubting right before the signs come. How often do we start doubting right before the Lord is about to prove Himself? Satan would have us doubt to draw us further away from the Lord. Why do we listen to his whispering? Why do we even take the time to consider them? To let them in? As President Hinckley hinted to, I think that doubt often sprouts when we are being inactive. I don't me inactive as in not going to church activities and such. I mean it as when we are not anxiously engaged in a good cause. Are we actively building and serving and growing, or are we just going through the motions? I know that if we are actively involved in the good things which the Lord has commanded us to be involved in that doubt cannot arise. When we are sincerely praying, when we are reading our scriptures, when we are fulfilling our church callings, when we are serving our fellow men--when we are doing all these things there is no time in our lives and no room in our hearts to doubt. Doing these things will bring the Spirit into our lives and He will testify of the truthfulness of all things.

God's Greatest Desire

I gave a talk on Sunday and since then some of the things which I spoke about have been swimming around in my head. One of those things has to do with this quote from President Uchtdorf:

“God Himself said we are the reason He created the universe! His work and glory—the purpose for this magnificent universe—is to save and exalt mankind. In other word, the vast expanse of eternity, the glories and mysteries of infinite space and time are all built for the benefit of ordinary mortals like you and me. We have a spark of eternal fire burning within our breast. We have the incomprehensible promise of exaltation—worlds without end—within our grasp. And it is God’s great desire to help us reach it.”

The thing in this quote that I’ve been pondering on is the last part, where it says that God’s great desire is to help us. I think that as mortals we don’t often think of God as a being who has desires. We think of God as this all-powerful, all-knowing, amazing being—which He is—but I think this unconsciously leads us to think that He couldn’t desire anything because He already has it all.

But God does desire things. Yes—He is a god, but He is also a person. His being a god doesn’t erase His desires, it merely perfects them. And above all the things in the world which He could desire and want one of the things which He desires most of all is for us to return to Him.

Think of it! God has planets and stars. He controls the elements. He has the power to walk on water, turn water to wine, heal the blind, and raise the dead. He could obtain almost anything which we in our worldly mortal state desire—things, pleasure, fame, fortune, wealth, popularity, the perfect body, the perfect house, the perfect car, the perfect job—He has the power to obtain any and all of these things at the tip of His finger. And yet, what He desires above all of these things is, essentially, us. You and me.

How ironic it is, then, that this is one of the only things He can’t have with a wave of His hand. Because Heavenly Father loves us so much He gave us the gift of choice and accountability. He knew that the only way we could be like Him, the only way we could obtain the level of happiness which He has, would be to let us come to this earth and to mess-up, to make bad decisions, and to jeopardize ever being able to return to Him again. In a sense, when Heavenly Father gave us choice and accountability He also gave up the only sure way that He could have what He most ardently desires—our safe return to Him.

It is only us—the powerless—who have the ability to give God—the most powerful—what He desires most. We so often focus on how the bad choices we make will affect our lives and happiness. How often do we pause and think about how the bad choices we make will affect God’s life and happiness? How do our actions cause Him to worry that we will deprive Him of that sweet, perfect, selfless, god-inspired desire He has of having us return to Him? A desire which, in all actuality, benefits us countless times more than it does Him?

Would it hurt to spend a little more time in our daily lives putting off our own intents and desires and thinking instead of God’s? Would it hurt to, instead of thinking about what we can do to make ourselves happy, think of what we can do to make Him happy? The best part about doing so is that we benefit more than He does.

God loves us in such a perfect manner that above almost all other things, He desires us to return to Him. That is the reason for everything—for the galaxies that fill the skies down to the grains of sand that fill the earth. God loves us—there’s no denying that. Let us better show our love for Him by doing our best to return to Him.

Excited to Live

This morning I got an email from my biology TA. This is what it said:

Hey guys,

I had my routine checkups/scans last week and the Dr. called on Friday with some bad news. I have been diagnosed with stage IV melanoma. The melanoma that started out on the back of my scalp metastasized to my bones. The cancer has spread to all the bones in my body. I will be flying to Denver to meet with a specialist and hopefully start some kind of trial treatment. Well I'm sorry to say that I just wont have the time or the energy to be your TA anymore. Either Dr. Cates or another TA will be teaching the Friday discussions for the rest of the semester. I will not be in my office hours but you can get help from another TA in the TA office. If you have any concerns that you need me to help with I can still answer emails and help out if I need to.

I have really enjoyed being your TA this semester and working with all of you. Again I'm sorry if this causes any troubles or problems for any of you. Have a great rest of the semester and continue the good work.

Needless to say, that's not what I'd been expecting to find when I logged into my Gmail account to check my inbox. This, along with a couple of other things that have happened over the past several days have caused me to stop, ponder, and reflect.

What am I doing with my life? Why do I wake up in the morning? Do my days have purpose? Goals? Do I go to bed better than I was when I woke up? Was the day I just had even worth living?

I'm ashamed of how I would have to answer these questions if I answered them honestly in regards to this past semester. So far, this semester I have been living life on the sidelines. Instead of getting out there with a plan and taking control of the game the game is taking control of me. I have let myself fall victim to laziness, self-pity, loneliness, and a lack of self-discipline. I've lived too many days wasting my time, talents, and energy. I've wasted too many days waiting for time to pass so that I could arrive at some future destination.

You guys--there is no excuse for this. There is too much good to be had in the present to waste it away by wishing for the future. Yes--it's easy to get stuck in the habit of being the victim, of letting life control you, but it's so much more worth it when we make the opposite true. There is too much work to be done to be lazy. There are too many others in need of a helping hand to have self-pity. There are too many friends to be had to be lonely. There are to many opportunities to be enjoyed to suffer from a lack of self-discipline. There is too much room to grow and improve to merely sit on the sidelines, going through the same routine day after day, never changing.

Nothing is predetermined. Our lives can be what we choose to make them be, one day at a time.

My life is so wonderful! If I were to wake up and immediately fall on my knees, thanking my Father in Heaven for all the blessings in my life, I would never be able to go back to bed! I live in country that enjoys more freedom than most and that was founded by amazingly good and inspiring men. I'm gaining an education that many people in the world would give an arm and a leg for. I have an amazing family who loves me unconditionally and wants the best for me. I have friends at home, school, work, church, class, and around the world. These friends and family are good people who have all enriched and touched my life, inspiring me to be a better person and to give back to others. I have a phone to call home when I get lonely, a shower to get myself clean, and a fridge to keep my food from going bad. I have a body that can run, jump, climb, sit, stand, talk, sing, laugh, clap, tap, dance, hum, work, eat, sleep, think, create, beautify, better, and so much more.

And above all, I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I know my Savior and Father in Heaven live. I know that they know me personally and that they love me and will love me for eternity. I know that they have a plan for me and that I'm not here by accident. I know that if I live righteously now that I can return to them. I know that Joseph Smith restored the Gospel on the earth and that by doing so he merely completed and perfected what was already taught and believed by many. I know that as part of that work that Joseph Smith translated the Book of Mormon. I know that the Book of Mormon is true, that it doesn't replace the Bible, rather, it complements it. I also know that the sole purpose of the Book of Mormon is to bring people closer to Christ and that by studying it our relationship with Him can grow more personal and wonderful than we could ever imagine. I know that we continue to have a living prophet on today's earth and that President Thomas S. Monson is that prophet. I know that he leads and guides the church under the direction of the God the Father. I know that temples are houses of the Lord and that their purpose is to unite us as sons and daughters of God together as a family. I also know that if I get married in the temple that that marriage can last for eternity. I know that we go through trials for a reason and that when we handle them well that we can always come out a better person in the end. I know that Christ is there to help us through those trials and that He can be there for us always if we do not leave His side.

To put it simply--there is too much to be grateful for in this life to waste it away. We all probably have more days left ahead of us to live than my Biology TA does. The attitude with which we choose to live those days is entirely up to us. May I make a recommendation and suggest that we live them happily? May I suggest that we no longer let whatever it is that chains us down chain us down any longer? Life is so wonderful. So fun. So beautiful. So precious. So sweet. Be you an American Jew from New York City, an Asian Buddhist from Nepal, or a European who-knows-what from Ireland--it makes no difference. We all have something to be thankful for and we all have a reason to wake up in the morning excited to live and be happy. That's how I want to live my life.